ISTDP Therapy

Even when clients feel ready for change, resistance and defenses naturally arise. Often developed as adaptive responses to early relational wounds or environments marked by misattunement, these patterns can later contribute to emotional distress and relationship difficulties. ISTDP helps uncover the underlying emotions and unconscious patterns driving suffering, creating space for deeper healing and lasting change.

ISTDP

Understanding ISTDP

What To Expect

Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP) is an experiential, emotion-focused, and evidence-based approach that helps clients become aware of anxiety, bodily feeling states, and unconscious defenses as they emerge in the present moment.

Through a collaborative process, the therapist gently identifies and challenges these defenses in real time, helping clients access the emotions beneath them. Integrating somatic awareness with psychoanalytic depth, ISTDP also uses the therapeutic relationship to illuminate unresolved experiences and enduring relational patterns that continue to shape the present.

Many describe ISTDP as active, fast-paced, and challenging, yet deeply clarifying and transformative, often leading to breakthroughs even after years of traditional talk therapy.

If you are interested in ISTDP, your therapist will conduct an initial trial session to determine whether the approach is a good fit for your goals and needs.

When Avoidance Keeps Getting in the Way

Signs ISTDP May Be Helpful

  • Feeling stuck in recurring emotional or relationship patterns despite insight or previous therapy.
  • Struggling with anxiety, chronic tension, or emotional overwhelm.
  • Experiencing depression, numbness, or emptiness
  • Struggling with patterns of people-pleasing, accommodation, or conflict avoidance.
  • Experiencing frequent anger, irritability, or emotional outbursts that feel difficult to control.
  • History of intellectualizing or staying “analytical” in previous therapies
  • Feeling impacted by unresolved grief, anger, guilt, trauma, or early relational wounds.

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YOU DON’T HAVE TO STAY STUCK IN OLD PATTERNS.

ISTDP helps you explore the emotions, defenses and unconscious patterns that may be keeping you from feeling more connected, free and fully yourself.

The Inara Team

Meet Our Clinicians

Mia Murray

Associate Clinical Social Worker, ACSW #130751

Megan Baker

Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT #160332

MONA SABA VALERIANO

Licensed Clinical Social Worker #27612

MONA SABA VALERIANO

Licensed Clinical Social Worker #27612

Megan Baker

Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT #160332

Mia Murray

Associate Clinical Social Worker, ACSW #130751

Benefits of Therapy

The Benefits of ISTDP Therapy

  • Greater emotional awareness and self-understanding.
  • Reduced anxiety and emotional distress.
  • Freedom from longstanding patterns and defenses that kept you feeling stuck.
  • Healing of unresolved grief, trauma, and relational wounds.
  • More authentic and connected relationships with others.
  • Improved relationship to self-confidence, self-assertion, and boundary setting.
  • Greater vitality, confidence, empowerment, and emotional freedom in daily life.

Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

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ISTDP stands for Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy. It is a therapy approach that helps clients identify unconscious emotional patterns, defenses and internal conflicts that may be contributing to distress and working towards relinquishing what no longer serves.

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ISTDP focuses on helping you notice the feelings, anxiety and defenses that arise in the present moment. By working with these patterns directly in the here and now, therapy can help create deeper emotional awareness and change.

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ISTDP may support people experiencing anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, unresolved trauma, emotional avoidance, self-sabotage, somatic tension, or patterns that feel hard to change.

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Defenses are unconscious strategies that help protect you from painful or overwhelming feelings. While they may have developed for good reasons, they can sometimes keep you disconnected from yourself or stuck in old patterns.

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Often, yes. ISTDP can be active and focused. Your therapist may help you pay close attention to what is happening emotionally and somatically in the moment and gently challenge patterns that block deeper feeling or connection.

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No. Many people begin therapy without knowing what is underneath their symptoms. ISTDP helps bring these patterns into awareness gradually and collaboratively.

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Yes. ISTDP pays close attention to how emotions and anxiety show up physically, such as tension, tightness, restlessness, numbness, stomach discomfort, or other body-based responses.

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While ISTDP was developed as a focused approach, the length of treatment can vary. Some people benefit from shorter-term work, while others may need more time depending on their history and goals.

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You can expect an active, collaborative process focused on your emotions, anxiety, defenses and patterns as they arise in real time. The goal is to help you access feelings more clearly and reduce the need for protective patterns that no longer serve you.

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A consultation can help determine whether ISTDP fits your needs, symptoms and goals. It may be especially helpful if you feel stuck despite insight or if old patterns continue to repeat.